Female masturbation tips... It takes the pressure off your partner as he/she is not the only source of your orgasms. It is the one form of sex with no risk of disease, pregnancy or emotional upset. It fits in with your life - unlike partner sex. It often results in more powerful and longer orgasms than other forms of sex. It allows you to fantasise and act as you want - please yourself not your partner. No partner/audience (usually) means you can be less inhibited in your use of toys and any other item you may personally find erotic. You can do it at your pace and can spread it out as long as you want. Female masturbation tips... Most women have the potential to become multi-orgastic, experiencing a succession of orgasms during an episode of sexual play. Some women rarely experience orgasm, or may never do so. If you are one of these women, try not to think of yourself as "non-orgasmic." Rather, try to think of yourself as "pre-orgasmic," as a woman whose range of sexual pleasures could be enhanced. Find out what you enjoy, what sensations give you the most satisfaction, and devote time to cultivating these experiences. Feeling a sense of trust and safety with your own bodily pleasures (and with the behaviors of your partner) is often necessary for orgasm, which usually requires a "letting go" of conscious control over bodily excitement. Out of anxiety, some women unconsciously prevent their orgasms, or lessen their intensity, sometimes by "holding their breath" and blocking the potentially pleasurable flow of energy through the body. Discovering what you like, and giving pleasure to yourself, is the best way to start enriching your sexual life. Female masturbation tips... I even paged myself a bunch of times and put my beeper on vibrate alarm to see if that would do it for me!! However, none of these things brought me to orgasm the way one other thing can--my old pillow, one which I have had for over 13 years. It's my absolute favorite plaything because it's broken in just the way I like it, all lumped up on one side, and really low and flat on the other. I put the big lumped rounded side underneath my clit and lay flat on my bed, holding my upper torso away from the pillow. I spread my legs apart and press them flat against the bed, rocking my body back and forth with my arms. I tense up all the muscles in my tummy and my thighs, breathing in short spurts that match my movement. Periodically, I take breaks to wet my tits with my saliva- I love how the cold air of my room feels drying spit off of my hard nipples. Female masturbation tips... These condoms can accommodate larger penises ($11.95 per six-pack). * LifeStyle Xtra Pleasure condom can also work for men with larger penises. The entire top portion blows out into a lightbulb shape. This allows nerve endings in the tip of the penis to impart more pleasurable sensations ($9.95 per dozen). For worry-free sex, follow these condom-care tips: * Store condoms in a cool, dry place. * Always check the expiration date. If the condom looks sticky or brittle, throw it out.

Female masturbation tips... SEATED REAR ENTRY A chair is a sexy prop for this position. Your partner sits comfortably upright in the chair while you sit on his lap, your back pressed to his chest. With the support of your arms on him or the chair, you can use your legs to move slowly and sensuously, just the way you like it. ABOUT-FACE, WOMAN ON TOP In this position, your partner is free to stimulate your breasts, clitoris and buttocks and to guide your thrusts. He lies on his back, and you straddle his torso with your back to him. This forces the penis into an uncommon angle, and creates different sensations for both of you. Let's Talk About Safe Sex The threat of sexually transmitted diseases looms large in our community. Female masturbation tips... One way in which you can begin to feel more comfortable about your own body is to stop comparing it with others. Remember that each of us is individual and our bodies are a simple reflection of that individuality. Getting comfortable with your own body is an important first step to a better sex life and masturbation can aid in this. If you're one of the many women who feel uncomfortable about taking your clothes off and seeing yourself naked there are a few simple steps you can take in the comfort of your own bedroom to help overcome this. Remember that mirror I mentioned earlier, now is a good time to go and stand in front of it. Slowly begin to undress and watch each part of your own body as it's revealed to you. Once your completely undressed, begin to stoke your body, maybe caress your neck, still watching yourself in the mirror, now slowly beginning to move your hands down your body towards your breasts, still watching. Female masturbation tips... Get in a power position. Many women find it easier to reach orgasm in the woman-on-top position. It allows your partner to use his hands to stroke your breasts and clitoris to help bring you to orgasm, adds Kim Davis) a certified nurse-midwife in Inglewood, California. Let You Fingers Do the Walking I started masturbating at the age of 12 and had my first orgasm then, even though I didn't know what the sensation was. My younger sister, on the other hand, never masturbated and never had orgasms until after her third pregnancy. Despite the negative messages most of us have received about touching ourselves "down there," there is nothing unnatural about masturbation. You're born with the equipment and a fertile imagination, so go for it!